paul smith cheap-The world's most time- three things .

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I ask you, the world's most waste of time is what?

all network? Stealing food? World of Warcraft?

not, although they are also very front rank.

the world's most waste of time is three words: WORRY, BLAME, & JUDGEMENT.

first: WORRY, worry.

make us feel worried about many things, the older, more so. However, in general, let us worry about the sort of thing, but 2:

1. We are prepared for things such as exams, such as performances, such as jobs ... we worry about these things, because we are afraid they will screw up. Messed up for many reasons, but the final analysis, most likely, the most direct reason is the lack of preparation. No effort to review, no efforts to prepare, no data, no experience, were not prepared, do not devote enough time to practice ... ... Well, since we are ill-prepared, how to do it? Sitting on the ground worried frown?

quickly to do the preparation course is it! ! !

2. We can not change things, such as the opinions of others, such as their natural defects, such as the end of the world?

some things you can not change, we always feel hard and more Asians to work harder paul smith cheap, be able to get perfect, so around people like themselves, the world is full of love .

(Eh-hem, not to say that the world is full of love is not good ... ...)

However, the fact is many of the world you can not change. Some people just naturally like you, like, some people naturally do not like you. No matter how hard you try, how to go into please, do not like you people just do not like you. Sometimes you do not question that the gas field sub.

Since

not change, why go to worry? Fear can be changed?

Let it go! can not change to let go of it! Enjoy your life.

second big waste of time, BLAME, blame

blame is a very simple thing, and people will.

we blame the parents can not get university education himself; not find work, we blame the university is not practical; late for work we blame the public transport system; love fails we blame each other selfish; failure of our strange sound performance is not good; examination strange twist out of our teacher cattle x ... ...

From now on, if you want to be a happy successful people, stop that!

take responsibility for themselves.

you are only a responsible person. Your life, your happiness is your own responsibility.

Yes, we have a sad past, you cry that your parents hit you since childhood ray ban clubmaster, I cried that my teacher had publicly insulted me, he said his girlfriend was cheating and more times so that he can not hurt to love again, she said she grew up without a father so the total could not help but love a married older men.

Blah blah blah ... blah blah blah ... blah blah blah blah blah blah blah ...

I ask you one: So what?

never had the sad experience of the give a hand to see?

we may encounter on our bad, we could marry our poor people.

however paul smith frames, chose to remain in this tragic relationship who is who?

choose not to try to change, do not seek help, who is?

believe me, no matter where born, we always have a choice, always have.

course, some choices are not easy, sometimes we have to compromise, however, choose to compromise, but also that we can even willing to bear the unfortunate, not it?

as willing to bear, can afford, why blame it?

blame others, they would not be hurt, most of the time they do not make changes.

angry mess, I thought I was muddle-headed people miserable life

just you, you Blamer it.

Do not blame, and from now on, all as their own responsibility.

If I screw up, then learn from experience, try to do better next time.

really nothing to blame for.

a waste of time the last word: Judgement.

Note that the Judgement is not that sense of Kazakhstan, common sense is required.

where the Judgement, is that judging others.

We always like to see them, look at the life, and then concluded: Joe Smith is a cow B, John Doe is very weak, in fact, worthless just installed the king five a rich look, Zhaoqian Sun is a barbaric unreasonable people ... ...

Yes, these conclusions may be correct.

So?

you look good and thorough, you say good exciting, ha, ha, ha, then?

Joe Smith is silly point to his special faith we all like him, John Doe is really weak but he is particularly good girlfriend that they would happily married , and Wang loaded to force five love but that's because he was a boy was looked down upon too, Zhaoqian Sun is the father of childhood beatings by a drink grew up ... ...

you see the story yet? That you do not know what it?

made your own analysis of it?

interesting?

make judgments on other people's lives, the first is a very brutal barbaric thing, most of the time, you do not understand this person, you do not understand what you make These determine how superficial.

Second, even if you judge them, and so what, others walked on his way, even if it is a very foolish in your eyes the way, he continued to enjoy his life, do you?

slavishly on the street staring at people you do not how life is more pathetic?

you proudly joke with others, did not realize that you are the picture.

through people, are also looking at you.

you have a good laugh.

or should be said that each of us is very funny. At the same time, we have their own lovely, hateful, despicable, honorable side.

being the case, large Gemo said brother, to go their, may be able to endure, tolerate you can not hide away point.

Having said that, the world of things is always easier said than done.

I still worry, I still blame, I am still under the definition of others ... ... in writing here, I try to give people advice, but also a very funny person .

However, my mind.

at least I am happy.

want you to be happy.

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